Son looking to get married 2015 (Spring/Summer). Brides family not in Minnesota and not sure they will be contributing anything to the wedding or even if they will attend. So my Husband and I are trying to find a reception hall that is cheap, bring in our own food. Our budget is under $3000.00 Our church chapel is even way to big for 60 - 70 guest. The chapel seats 350 people. The smaller chapel seats 35 people. Our son has his heart set on Church wedding. We are walking a fine line of not upsetting the couple and not paying for a huge wedding by ourselves.