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Groom's Gift: His monogram or OUR monogram?

drewisesupdrewisesup member
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I'm looking into purchasing engraved cufflinks for my fiance for our wedding day. Should I use his monogram (with his first, last and middle initials), or OUR married monogram (my first initial, our last name, his first initial)? Has anyone else done something similar? I want the cufflinks to feel like they're his, but I also think our married monogram is meaningful to the day. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!
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    msuprincess04msuprincess04 member
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    edited July 2014

    Edited for reading fail.

    I'd probably get the one that includes both of you. It's a reminder of a special day and something he can certainly wear again.

     

    "There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness." -Friedrich Nietzsche, "On Reading and Writing"
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    CMGragainCMGragain member
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    A man's cufflinks should be engraved with his own initials.
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    rainbows0215rainbows0215 member
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    His own his gift, that is how I feel.
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    AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    I don't think your initials should be on his accessories.
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    PineapplePopsiclesPineapplePopsicles member
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    @andreadcarroll  You should definitely use his initials.  
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    wrigleyvillewrigleyville member
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    I second (third? fourth?) using his initials. You could always have your initials (as in, both of yours) engraved inside his wedding band.
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