My parents 25th wedding anniversary is coming up in about a month. I've picked a restaurant and H and I are going to take them out to dinner to celebrate (surprise). I want to let my brother and sister in law know in addition to my sister and her FI (will Be husband in a few weeks) in case they want to join.
Here is my dilemma. My brother and sister each have a kid. Both my nephews are two and I love them to pieces and pieces but I would really like to have a nice adult evening with my parents to celebrate their anniversary. In addition, the restaurant is very nice and upscale. And my sisters son cries, a lot, and is super Attached to my mom and cries if she leaves the room. Last time we went out to a nice restaurant for Hs birthday my mom get up to use the bathroom and he screamed the entire rest of the evening. Again, I love him to pieces but I (as well as other paying customers I'm sure) won't want to deal with this. So how do I tell them this without coming off as a jerk? FYI... I don't have kids.
My sister and her fiancé will be getting back from their honeymoon just two days prior so I'm also wondering if she will be hesitant to leave them with a sitter after she hasn't seen him for a week. FWIW I don't see my brother and sister in law taking any offense to this. Mostly just my sister