I have to ask this.... I recently took my kids and their friends to the shore. I had a place and my mother had a place.
I bought tons of junk food and soda for the kids and it was bought for them to have when they felt hungry between meals and so fourth.
So at my place the girls just helped themselves (wasted A LOT) no biggie. But when we went to my mother's they went in her fridge and helped themselves too AND MY MOM FLIPPED!!!!
I was always taught to bring a dessert, always help clean up if invited to dinner AND NEVER GO IN SOMEONES FRIDGE.
After the girls went home I found it interesting that my 16 year old thought her friends were out of line also. It dont bother me too much but it made me think....
WHAT DO OTHER FAMILIES TEACH THEIR KIDS????