I think H and I were unintentionally rude at our wedding a few months ago in April.
Our ceremony started at 3 and ended at 4. Our photographer had originally told us to plan on 90 minutes for photos (we did not have a first look). Family photos, bridal party and H and I. It ended up being over 2 hours.
During photos, at the reception we had the following available for guests: veggie trays, cheese/pepperoni/cracker trays, cookie table, open bar, non-alcoholic beverages (2 kinds of punch, coffee, water).
Upon our arrival at the reception, we had our first dance, cut the cake and then dinner was served at about 6:30.
At the reception, we heard that some guests had stormed out before we arrived as they were starving and hadn't ate all day. About 1/3 of our guests left right after dinner, a lot more leaving after cake was served. As such, we did not get to talk to most of our guests.
We truly did not mean to be rude. If I had been aware of the time (I did not have a watch and H didn't check his phone), I would have cut our pictures short.
Thank you notes went out long ago, and I didn't address this at the time, but I'm wondering if we should apologize to our guests for our rudeness?