My fiance and I are both women so we aren't getting much financial support from anybody.. well except our bridal party (each offered to help with something.. we have some pretty great friends.) We were looking on Wedding Paper Divas for the Save The Date's, invitations, insert cards, programs, etc. A lot of these items are really expensive and I'm trying to cut as many expensive corners as possible. I just wanted to know what you lovely ladies and gentleman thought was reallyyyyy necessary because when I look at everything that I'm "supposed" to buy a lot of it just seems like a waste of paper. Also, how does everyone feel about e-vites? I read that it was not personal enough.