We are having a very small wedding. Not only for budget related reasons, but also because we feel like we'll enjoy it more. We are going to have about 20 people, hopefully less. We were originally going to invite 200-250 people. That includes extended family, friends, ect. Many of them live around the country and wouldn't have been able to make it anyway. Right after the wedding, (or soon after), I'd like to have one of our pictures put onto a nice card telling them that we got married and send it out. Is there a name for that? Is there a proper etiquette? I just want to make sure that these postcard-type things that we send out are appropriate. I'd like it to have a wedding picture or two and maybe "We got married!" with our wedding date.
If you're wondering, we plan on having a party prior to our wedding for those who aren't invited. I'm not sure what that would be called either... It will be mostly my fiance's family there, since most of my family lives out of town. Or if there is any good etiquette to remember for that. Any input will help! Thanks.