My wedding is around 9 weeks away now, and I've been having a really hard time getting in contact with one of my bridesmaids. We don't see each other as much as we used to anymore since I moved a few hours away, but I tried texting her and texting her and didn't hear from her in a month. When I did, it was after I'd sent her three Facebook messages. (Note: I spaced these things out because I don't wanna seem overbearing or annoy her, y'know?) Then she said she switched her cell number. I don't have her new number, and I do kinda wonder if it's true because she never made any attempt to make sure I had it or knew she changed it. It didn't occur to me until after this conversation to get it from her, and now I haven't heard from her since. I try not to talk about wedding stuff unless it's necessary because, really, no one cares about my wedding as much as I do and I know they don't wanna hear it. I try to talk to her about work (we both work for the same company and the company's got some major changes happening right now) or just send her a "hey, how's it going?" message, but she doesn't respond to anything I send her. So I sent her this message yesterday:
Hey! Haven't heard from you in a while, but I just wanted to let you know that if you'd still like to be one of my awesometastic bridesmaids, you have 9 weeks left to order your dress. If you don't want to, that's perfectly fine and I completely understand -- definitely would still love to have you there regardless! Just let me know! Love you booboo!
I haven't heard from her yet, and normally she's not this flakey, so I'm not sure what it is. I get the strong feeling she doesn't want to be in the wedding anymore, which is totally fine! I understand that there are reasons for that. But I'd at least like to know what's going on. Anyone got any suggestions on what else I can do?