So I've read here and a few other places about ring bearers and flower girls. I've noticed a lot of comments about certain age being too young. My flower girl is my niece. She is going to be close to 3 1/2. I know she will be fine. She loves being the center of attention and she is so excited to wear her pretty dress. However my godson/nephew will be my ring bearer will only be 1 1/2. I know he is young & he won't really understand what's going on.But he is my godson who I care about dearly and want him to be a part of my day. My thought is I can always have a back up plan if he gets stage fright. I've worked with kids in this age group so I know there's a 50/50 chance of him not wanting to do anything lol