My parents have offered to host and pay for our wedding reception. My fiance's parents haven't been involved in the planning and have not offered to help with anything. We're working on our invitations which will be coming from my parents. We're not sure if we should mention to my FILs that my parents will be hosting and their names will be on the invitation but there's will not. We don't want them to be surprised/hurt and feel like they haven't been given the opportunity to host but my parents had reached out and his had not. We don't know if they haven't been involved because they're uninterested or because they're giving us our space to plan the wedding we want. Any suggestions on how to handle?