I posted a few days ago that FI was going on a bachelor trip to upstate NY. He left Monday night, and since then FMIL has been texting me - mostly in the evenings - to see "How I'm holding up", "Am I lonely yet?", "What am I doing tonight?." Ummm FI went upstate for 3 days. I lived on my own for 2 years. I'm totally fine. In fact, although I miss him, I have enjoyed my alone time. I did some (very minor) cleaning, watched movies I love, drank some vino, it was fabulous.
Yesterday evening she texted me "Can you tell FI to call me? Thanks." He is on a trip!!!! Seriously? Let him be! I have not even been calling him. When he texts me, I respond, but I want him to enjoy himself, have fun with the guys. So I told her that I have not been speaking much with him since I know that he's busy with the guys, and he has been texting me late at night. She said she wanted him to look over a letter that she needs to send to her job (She is on medical leave, and they wanted to confirm the return date.) I told her that I would gladly look at it for her. I did, made some edits, and that was that. She texted me an hour ago "Hi, have you heard from FI yet?"
I get it. It's her son, and on top of that, she is bored at home. I can't help but feel annoyed, though. FI is a grown man! I think it's fine for a 30 year old to go away for a few days and not have to call his mom every day while he is on vacation. And she is not confined to her home, either. She complains that she is bored at home doing nothing all day, but then I hear that she went out to dinner, or to her friends house.
I'm not going to say anything, it is not my place. I just needed to vent. And I feel bad that I feel so annoyed right now. IDK if I'm being unreasonable in my feelings because my relationship with my parents is different. Sigh. Well - at least it is Thirsty Thursday and FI will be back and we can have some yummy margarita's later!