My friend made a post on FB today. What are your thoughts on addressing envelopes to married couples? Isn't it etiquette to address the couple by the male's name? Or am I just old fashion?
You know what I really can't stand?! When Steve* and I get mail and it's addressed: "Mr. and Mrs. Steve Smith." I'm sure gay couples have both of their names addressed, so why not straight? We are Mr. and Mrs. Steve AND Janice* Smith (or vice versa). So for future reference, to anyone sending us mail, PLEASE include my name too. I am NOT Mrs. Steve Smith. I'll save you all from a "feminist rant", but it's extremely offensive to me. I hope other women can understand where I'm coming from and strive for the same independence. Just because I took his last name, does not mean he "took" me. Oh, and to Steve's friends, don't let me catch you referring to me as "the wife" ... your punishment will be an hour long lecture ;P
*Changed names to protect
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