Hi everyone,
I am hoping to get some insight on a guest list matter. My fiance wants to invite a group of friends from his work to the wedding. I do not want them there on our special day, as honestly I think they are all jerks. I think they are rude to him and to me, and they have taken advantage of his kindness many times. They basically invited themselves to the wedding.
He and I are splitting the costs of the wedding, but it is to the point where I am willing to pay all of it to ensure they do not come. I am totally okay with telling them they are not invited, but the only thing holding me back is that my fiance feels they are truly his friends. I know I cannot tell him who his friends are, and I hold my tongue when he hangs out with them... But I really don't want them at the wedding, for this one day.
I'm pretty sure they'll end up coming, but I just wanted to see what you guys think. Thank you for your input.