Ladies, we just celebrated our first anniversary, and I realized I haven't been back on here since the big day last summer. So a belated thanks to the dozens of you who answers my over-thought questions and offered sage advice and support.
To all the brides planning - good luck! Stay relaxed. The only thing that really matters is that you and FI enjoy your very special day. No one will remember what shoes the groomsmen wore or whether the bridesmaids dresses were all identical. Some people won't send gifts, others will surprise you with their generosity. The day and night will fly by. If possible, get it on video! doesn't have to be fancy 
xo BB