I'm posting on the Etiquette board because I'm looking for the truth, my apologies if this isn't exactly an Etiquette question..
I'm starting to consider having our wedding at a summer camp - there are a lot of great things about it:
-huge amount of space
-lots of things to do(canoe! swimming pool! archery range! just sit out in the sun by the lake and drink! etc)
-cheap to rent out
-beautiful scenery
I'm worried that this is one of those ideas that guests will secretly hate. Everyone could stay overnight at the camp for free (we'd pay for that as a part of the site fee) but keep in mind it's a camp, so we're talking a bunch of bunk beds in cabins. Could be fun if you're with all your old friends! Could also be really, really annoying if you're not the camping type. Of course people could stay off site at a hotel if they want, or drive back home if they live close enough.
It'll be a two hour drive for our closest guests(about 40% of the attendees). The others all live out of state, so they'll definitely need overnight accommodations. We'll be hosting everyone properly with food, drinks, dancing, etc - no gaps, no cash bars, none of that. I guess my question is - would you WANT to go to a summer camp wedding? Or would you go because you felt obligated and complain in the car ride on the way home about how annoying it was to be in a random field or whatever? Am I over thinking this?
Anyway, thoughts appreciated, thank you!