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UGHHHHH. (NWR rant) (Also stupid.) (Can ignore.) (Updated)

edited August 2014 in Chit Chat
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There are days where I wish life were a video game, so I could rage quit. We ordered nice, expensive, solid-wood furniture and got not-nice, cheap, pressboard furniture instead. Keyboard Smash.

Long-ass ragey version:
So. I've mentioned a couple of times that my parents' house burned this spring, right after I moved back in.

We've been in the new house since May 1st-ish and it has been, largely, unfurnished. One bedroom suite that my mother had purchased prior to the fire but couldn't get until June (yet another long story) and some odds-n-ends furniture that people were amazingly generous enough to offer us. Which was amazing, of course. But nothing that made the house feel like home. We've been accumulating insurance money slowly, and about a month and a half ago we went and ordered (and paid for) three bedroom suites: one for my+FI's bedroom, one for my dad's bedroom, and one for my baby sister's bedroom; plus a couch, two chairs and ottomans, and a rug for the living room.

At the store, we were told several times that the furniture we were ordering was all solid wood. We were also SPECIFICALLY told that it would not be pressboard. We asked, because solid wood lasts (until it's in a house fire, of course). Pressboard does not. We knew there would be veneers on it, but underneath it was solid wood. We were also told that the couch and chairs would be leather on all sides.

I loved the set I had chosen. It was white with brushed nickel accents and it had a media chest and a gorgeous nightstand and DRAWERS. So many drawers. There were two at the foot of the bed, two in the nightstand, and four in the media chest, plus two cubbies for game systems or satellite receivers or what-have-you. I was so excited about my drawers. All of our clothes were hanging out in laundry baskets, and I was so so so ready to get out of those laundry baskets. 

So today, I was ALL ECSTATIC because it was Delivery Day (FINALLY) and we were going to have a nice, put-together-looking bedroom and I could go and buy sheets and comforters and make our room look like a place someone actually LIVED instead of a cheap-ass college apartment in a shady part of town. So excited. I was hoping it would even be here by the time I got off at 4. 

Nope. Delivery time frame was somewhere between 2-6. They got here at 6:30. They brought all the bedroom furniture first, and were going to have to come back with the LR stuff (which is fair, since there was a shit-ton of stuff being delivered). First thing we notice: They're bringing in a dresser none of us recognize. Turns out it was supposed to be my dad's - except it was not, in fact, the set my dad had ordered. It wasn't even by the same maker. Next thing we notice: My media chest is damaged. Not just scratched-damaged either, although there were definite scratches and greasy black splotches all over it. No, a decent-size chunk was taken out of the front, where it's been banged up against something in transit between Point A and our bedroom. My sister's dresser was okay. But at this point we're looking hard at the little things, and the chunk out of my media chest tells us something that turns the little issues into a Big Deal: My stuff, which we paid over $2k for and were told would be solid wood, was pressboard. Which we were SPECIFICALLY told it would not be. My dad brings the head delivery man in and shows him the divot in my thing through which we could clearly see the pressboard, and he agrees - yep, that's pressboard. They looked at the other stuff and it turns out that ALL of it was pressboard, despite being told that it would not be. Delivery Man steps outside to call his manager, who tells him to do whatever we say do.

So we say, "Take it all back, and don't bring the couch and chairs. We'll be in tomorrow to speak to someone."

FI and I don't have our drawers that I was looking so forward to. None of us have our beds. The living room is, still, completely bare. And I am contemplating calling Bossman the Lawyer to see what our options are legally since we were REPEATEDLY assured by about three people that we were purchasing solid wood furniture, not pressboard. 

I am so SO much disappoint.

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Re: UGHHHHH. (NWR rant) (Also stupid.) (Can ignore.) (Updated)

  • That seriously sucks.  We just went shopping for a new dining table/chairs and we do not want pressboard either.  One of the sales clerks actually told us that we should not take the wobbly chairs and massive scratches in the tables on display as a sign of poor quality.  It was because they are floor models and sat in/bump/touched multiple times a day.  DH made a comment that it showed how they hold up over time.  At that point she told us that we would only keep them for 5 years anyhow so we didn't need to worry about them holding up long term.  Guess what store we are not buying from.  
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  • Oh my GOD someone told you that you wouldn't keep them that long? I would have seriously turned around and walked out, probably before they even finished. 

    My mom specifically told them she wasn't intending to ever replace this stuff. Her bedroom suite in the old house was older than I am. The table was about 23, and we had to recover and repad the seats and that's it. Nothing we had in that house was presboard except for some cheap stuff I had in my apartment.
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  • Ugh. Not okay. I hope they bend over backwards making this right.
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  • My parents bought my childhood bedroom suite used before I was even born. This makes it over 40 years old. It still sits in "my" room at my mother's house. It looks like new. Someday, when DH and I have a big enough house it will move in with us. When I say "childhood" I mean it's what was in my room from the time I was an infant and I went straight from the crib to the full sized bed. It's not children's furniture.
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  • Ughhhhh I'm sorry, so frustrating. Hoping they just picked up all the wrong stuff and the real, quality stuff you paid for will be there ASAP!

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  • One of the furniture stores in this area is running an ad saying that the average of people's furniture in this state is at an all time high. I guess a recession causes people to not redecorate as often. The commercial goes on to say that it means people need new furniture. I get that their business is to sell furniture but they could word things a little better.
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  • I'm so sorry to read this!  I know what it's like setting up a new place with nothing, but can't imagine how hard it must be after losing everything.  I feel as though you were fortunate to find out about the pressboard while you could still do something about it.  Hopefully things will go much better with your next order and you'll have your dream bedroom soon. x
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  • @missdelilah I hope so. It's just frustrating to get so excited. Seriously, we found out about this on Monday and I've been bouncing around since then about it. We definitely were lucky to figure it out early though. Hopefully Bossman Lawyer or his friends won't have to get involved with it. We're currently out over $10k all told with the furniture.

    @mysticl NO. I wouldn't shop at that store either because that would just piss me off. But that just could be residual rage haha. Also, yeah. Good quality stuff lasts. Of course, the feet of my furniture will get dinged when it jumps out at my feet, but other than that we do kind of expect whatever we buy to last us for a good long while.

    @lolo883 nope. Mine and my sisters were both the right stuff, looked just like the catalog. It was just pressboard. We're going to raise ever loving hell tomorrow though.
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  • Ugh.  It's terrible to go through what your family has, and then to deal with bs like this?  Hope everything gets worked out tomorrow.  Keep us updated! 


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  • I don't think there's any legal recourse you can take, unless they for some reason refuse to refund your cash. 

    Best case scenario. Sales associate was confused, didn't actually mean to mislead you, shows you other stuff.

    Worst case scenario. Store is shady as fuck. Take your business elsewhere. 

    Try not to hold the half hour outside against your time window against anyone. Often times deliveries are outsourced, which means the sales people have no control over it, and sometimes stuff comes up which throws the schedule off. If our delivery guys take an extra 20 minutes at a stop because the recliner back is being finicky being put together, it can mess up the rest of their day, and it's not something they can control. 

    One other thing. You said it was over 2k. Was that per bedroom suite, per piece, or everything together? A lot of the suites I sell, 2k will get you 2, maybe 3 pieces of the suite thats all hardwood. If you're getting an entire suite for 2k, I think it's a too good to be true sort of deal.
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  • @chibiyui it was actually just for 3 pieces: the bed, nightstand and media chest (or dresser, in my dad and sister's cases). If it hadn't been so expensive, my OCD ass would have gotten two nightstands instead of one, hahaha. If we get our money back, we will be going elsewhere. But the delivery guy said that the person we dealt with won't give us anything back, he'll try to get us to buy something else there. And I, for one, will not be doing that. Not that I have THAT much of a choice in the matter, but still.

    The head delivery man is, luckily, a long-time employee of the company. From what he said, this isn't the first time he's wound up taking stuff back because people had paid money for something they didn't get. He said to talk to a different person than the person we've been dealing with. He and the other guy were, thankfully, super cool, and I felt really bad for them. I wasn't even bothered by the time thing, really, I just felt like they could have called and let us know (which they didn't) but 30 minutes ... eh, no big whoop really. 

    @time2strtliving At this point, I'm just so frustrated. I probably don't need to go tomorrow, haha. I'll chew someone out.
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  • If it makes you feel any better, my dog just got skunked. Barf.

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  • If it makes you feel any better, my dog just got skunked. Barf.
    EWWW poor doggie! I've heard tomato ... something? helps, but I dunno. It's been years since I've even smelled a skunk. I feel bad for the puppy now!
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  • edited August 2014
    If it makes you feel any better, my dog just got skunked. Barf.
    EWWW poor doggie! I've heard tomato ... something? helps, but I dunno. It's been years since I've even smelled a skunk. I feel bad for the puppy now!
    Hydrogen peroxide, baking soda and dish soap. She got it right in the face...cuz she was attacking it. Totally deserved it.

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  • If it makes you feel any better, my dog just got skunked. Barf.
    EWWW poor doggie! I've heard tomato ... something? helps, but I dunno. It's been years since I've even smelled a skunk. I feel bad for the puppy now!
    Hydrogen peroxide, baking soda and dish soap. She got it right in the face...cuz she was attacking it. Totally deserved it.
    BAHAHAHAHA okay maybe I feel a little less bad. 
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  • @chibiyui it was actually just for 3 pieces: the bed, nightstand and media chest (or dresser, in my dad and sister's cases). If it hadn't been so expensive, my OCD ass would have gotten two nightstands instead of one, hahaha. If we get our money back, we will be going elsewhere. But the delivery guy said that the person we dealt with won't give us anything back, he'll try to get us to buy something else there. And I, for one, will not be doing that. Not that I have THAT much of a choice in the matter, but still.

    The head delivery man is, luckily, a long-time employee of the company. From what he said, this isn't the first time he's wound up taking stuff back because people had paid money for something they didn't get. He said to talk to a different person than the person we've been dealing with. He and the other guy were, thankfully, super cool, and I felt really bad for them. I wasn't even bothered by the time thing, really, I just felt like they could have called and let us know (which they didn't) but 30 minutes ... eh, no big whoop really. 

    @time2strtliving At this point, I'm just so frustrated. I probably don't need to go tomorrow, haha. I'll chew someone out.
    Okay, yes. At that price point, you should be getting solid wood, or at the very least main components are solid wood. (Sides, top, drawer sides). I would definitely go elsewhere. Since you refused delivery, they pretty much have to refund your money. I'd follow the delivery guys advice. Good luck!
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  • chibiyui said:
    @chibiyui it was actually just for 3 pieces: the bed, nightstand and media chest (or dresser, in my dad and sister's cases). If it hadn't been so expensive, my OCD ass would have gotten two nightstands instead of one, hahaha. If we get our money back, we will be going elsewhere. But the delivery guy said that the person we dealt with won't give us anything back, he'll try to get us to buy something else there. And I, for one, will not be doing that. Not that I have THAT much of a choice in the matter, but still.

    The head delivery man is, luckily, a long-time employee of the company. From what he said, this isn't the first time he's wound up taking stuff back because people had paid money for something they didn't get. He said to talk to a different person than the person we've been dealing with. He and the other guy were, thankfully, super cool, and I felt really bad for them. I wasn't even bothered by the time thing, really, I just felt like they could have called and let us know (which they didn't) but 30 minutes ... eh, no big whoop really. 

    @time2strtliving At this point, I'm just so frustrated. I probably don't need to go tomorrow, haha. I'll chew someone out.
    Okay, yes. At that price point, you should be getting solid wood, or at the very least main components are solid wood. (Sides, top, drawer sides). I would definitely go elsewhere. Since you refused delivery, they pretty much have to refund your money. I'd follow the delivery guys advice. Good luck!
    Yeah, the top of mine was most definitely not solid wood. :/

    Thanks! We will be taking it tomorrow morning. So hopefully I'll have good news tomorrow.
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  • Update:

    Mom and Dad went and talked to the owner. He said, before they ever started, that he'd make it right. The couch and chairs are being delivered today, in the next few minutes supposedly. He sent them back with a bunch of catalogs for American Drew and Kincaid, and one for Bassett, and several for Broyhill. He also said to look around online and see if we found anything that wasn't in the catalogs he sent, and he would order them. He also said he'd give them to us "at his cost". Which, I guess, means that if we decide we want something that's more expensive than what we already paid, we have to pay the difference.

    I would have preferred to get our money back outright, but I guess the solution is what it is, and it certainly could be worse.
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  • So glad that everything worked out!  It was a terrible inconvenience, but I'm happy that the owner was so reasonable and willing to work things out.  


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  • I hope that everyone finds stuff they like. I have to say, my Kincaid furniture has held up fantastically for 13 years.
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  • We have some Broyhill stuff that we really like.
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  • Updates? I'm curious on this new furniture.

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  • edited August 2014
    The couch and chairs and a rug I'd forgotten my mom got were delivered! We are not allowed to put feet on anything but the ottomans, which makes me sad because I love these chairs and want to curl up in them. They are fantastic and SO comfortable. They're a really dark red, and the couch is black-coffee brown. We chose to get red because we have a huge painting in our LR that has a lot of dark reds and browns in it and the chairs match the darkest red perfectly. 

    We've been perusing different collections from the brands the owner suggested to us, and I think my sister and I have found a couple of things we really like. I want to get FI's input, even though technically this won't be OUR bed (we won't get to take it with us when we move out, I mean) but he still has to live with it until we do. This is what I'm thinking, in white: Clicky me!! This is what I originally ordered, but I don't think I'll be able to find anything quite like it: Clicky me too!! All the brands we're looking at now are definitely more "classic" where the one I ordered was sort of more contemporary without being, like, hyper-modern.

    Hopefully the cluster has been unclustered. My parents are satisfied, anyway, which is what I wanted - my mom was so upset last night. Seriously, we dropped $10k over the span of about three days there in all the furniture we bought. 

    ETA: Thanks to everyone for being so patient and helpful! I am still ill about the bed situation, but I think it will work out now.
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  • Ooh I like the first clicky!!!

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  • Oh I like that. We looked at the ones with storage underneath, and they are awesome.
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  • I do too. It's clean-looking, and it's actually got metal hardware, which was something I REALLY liked about the other. I will NEVER understand why the go-to drawer hardware on white furniture always seems to be white wooden. We'll probably try to get the under-bed storage too, simply because between the two of us there's a lot of clothes and other storage needs. 
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  • reading this, is it etiquette appropriate to let your guests know verbally that you've sent them an invite?
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    ? What now @natswild?

    ETA tag.
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  • @natswild, did you mean to post this on a different thread?  Or is this maybe a glitch?  I've seen a couple "random" questions on threads lately.

    @CaitTDid23, First clicky is awesome!  


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