My fiancé and I are trying to plan a small (50 guests max) casual wedding. We are leaning towards next September 2015...but very easy going and open to ideas. I'm having trouble finding a venue that doesn't have a guest requirement...yet is still affordable ($100 or so a head) We don't want a banquet hall type setting, were looking for a fun, informal vibe...with plenty of booze and no stuffiness!! I looked into Cape May, and that seemed seriously expensive and again, we didn't have enough guests....we're open to ANYWHERE in New Jersey, New York or even PA near water (lake or ocean) is a serious plus.... ANY suggestions are very much appreciated, as I feel I'm about to start banging my head into walls!