Hi all , I'm new to this site and a Bridesmaid for the first time. It is my family's member Katie's wedding and the BP is 10 girls. Katie has asked each of us to do something different and she asked me to help her pick a dress , venue and etc. all of which I'm happy to help. Just a bit worried about the whole money situation. She wants to have a lavish Bachelorette Party that will include flights , hotels and etc. probably in Vegas or somewhere very far from where we live. It all seems a little excessive to me. However , I have no idea how any of this works. What duties do I have as a Bridesmaid? What must and must I not attend? I know each wedding is different , just trying to find out what else to expect and the money involved. Thank you girls so much.