My BF and I have been talking about getting engaged. We have been together for 7 years but we have both had a lot of difficulty finding steady work so finances have always been a big obstacle for us and, while he has finally landed a FT position, he is concerned about not having the resources to buy a ring. I found a wedding set that I think is perfect and inexpensive. What is the etiquette about suggesting the kind of rind you'd like? I want to show him that this isn't something that has to monopolize our funds, but I don't want to step on his toes if picking the ring is something he wants to do.