I'm getting ready to ask those special people to me to be in my bridal party. My finance and I want to have a small bridal party (7-8 people total). My dilemma is that I have a brother that I am asking to be in the bridal party- we are 3 years apart and grew up together (my full brother). I also have a half brother (we share our dad and did not grow up together and never lived in the same house) who I don't plan on asking. My half brother is 39 and I am 23 so he would be a lot older than anyone else in our bridal party.. Plus, we just aren't that close. He has had a wild life, been in a bad place for years when I didn't see him growing up. Now he has settled down since he had his kids but we still aren't close. I was in his wedding when I was 13 but he also had an insanely large bridal party (30 people!!!). I will probably ask him two little boys to be my ring bearers but will not ask my half brother to be in the wedding. Is this terrible? He is obnoxious and would make all my other bridal party members so I really don't want to and my parents seem to totally understand why I wouldn't want him in it ( everyone sort of dreads seeing him because he is cocky and selfish ). I do really hate hurting feeling and I was in his wedding.. Is it ok to not have him in mine?