My bf inherited a diamond ring that belong to his great-grandmother from his grandmother who passed away recently. He would like to reset the diamond into a new setting (that I pick out). I worry that his mother and her sisters will have a strong opinion about this and feel like because it's their grandmother's ring that they should have some sort have a say in what the new ring would look like or feel like or feel like the diamond should stay in it's current setting. I worry that this will come up constantly and for the rest of their lives. They were all very close to their Grandmother. I should note also that he has not told anyone about this plan b/c his mom and her sisters and loudmouths and he wants to keep from asking too many questions about our impending engagement before it happens.
Does anyone have any experience with this issue. Does it cause family drama? My boyfriend could afford to buy a new diamond for me, but we'd rather save that money for a nicer honeymoon. Is it worth it or should I suggest that we keep the ring as it and I can wear it on my ring finger for special occasions and loan out to his sister and female cousins?