Let me start by saying I don't support the wedding, obviously, but I HAVE to go to the wedding unless im giving birth to my 3rd child, as it is my husbands sister that is getting married. Im going to list off some of the reasons I don't support it: 1.) her fiancé does not allow them to attend any of her family events, with the exception of her niece/nephews bdays, but makes it a point the go to ALL of his. 2.) she moved in with him and is not allowed to bring any of her stuff she has collected for years as''his house is already decorated'' (to the point of having a landscape photo of a girls privates in his bathroom...) 3.) all she did was ask to go see her aunt who lives 8hrs away with stage 4 cancer and he argued with her and started saying talking to her should be enough..... and wouldn't let her go visit....., 5.)ever since she started to date him she doesn't make an effort besided bday partys to see her niece or nephew before him we used to meet every other week or once a month,
those are just the major reasons but he feels hes better than everyone and if I didn't half to go to the wedding I wouldn't but im due the day before with my 3rd child so I might get my wish,
is it rude not to go to the bridal shower? as im really not comfortable being at their house and not comfortable with the wedding at all? her other sister in law and mother in law all agree with everything and aren't supper supportive of the wedding besides the fact that she is happy and that's all they keep repeating....