My fiance and I have set a date for April, 2015. We have been dating for a looong time, and I and our families and friends have been anxiously awaiting this. Our families all live in different states. The wedding will be in my home state, where my family is. I chose April 25th in hopes that it would be late enough for the snowstorms of MN to be done while all of us in IN and MI drive to MN. Hopefully it isn't wishful thinking!!
Between the two of us, my fiance and I have 10 nieces and 6 nephews. All of the nieces & nephews will be in the wedding. I couldn't imagine the nieces and nephews not being in the wedding! Besides, it wouldn't be right having some and not the others be in it because they are all so excited!
When date was finally set, my SIL asked if it was really set because my nieces (15 and 13) are in theater & dance & will have things going on that weekend. We had not heard back from the pastor yet if date was available so we didn't want to say yay or nay yet. The date has since been set with the pastor, but no invitations have gone out yet. Now my SIL has asked what time the wedding is because my nieces have mandatory rehearsal for their dance theater that day from 1-5. She is trying to see whether the wedding is going to be later so the girls can go to rehearsal and then just be there for the wedding after. And our wedding can't be moved to the next weekend because that is when the dance theater actually is.
On top of that, my SIL has been nice & helpful & has been going around to different shops the past week in MN to try & find BM & JBM dresses that are in the WCs, look nice & appropriate but are inexpensive. I first thought of having everyone just find something that is in the colors, modest (the BMs and JBMs will all be between 12-16), and is floor length for the BMs & knee or tea-length for the JBMs. Now it's getting hard for my SIL to find things, & she only has so many weekends to drive around looking as the girls, & my nephew, have activities almost every weekend (practically until the wedding). What do I do???
While we have been waiting a long time for this day to come, should I move the wedding to be in June when all the kids are out of school??? Our venue is at two of my brothers's church so higher June rates hopefully won't be an issue for our budget wedding. At the same time, I don't know if my SIL will sign the kids up for numerous activities for the summer!
I have also tried searching for gowns online but nothing seems right, in the colors, for a relatively good deal, and is available in IN, MN & MI. Probably too much to ask! LOL