College friend is one of my Bridesmaids but not a very good friend! Take her out??
Just hoping for a bit of advice here. One of my bmaids and I have been friends since college (about 5 years) and I included her in my bridal party. Well once she graduated and moved away this past summer I've been doing everything I can to stay in contact with her but she isn't receptive. She almost never answers my phone calls or even acknowledges that I have called. When we do speak its very surface and only for a few minutes at a time. When I approached her asking her if something was wrong or if she was mad at me (or if things were simply changing between us) she said absolutely no way and that everything was great. I feel a little bit like she is just telling me what I want to hear and isn't putting in the effort to be helpful with the wedding plans or to be a good friend. This is also the second time we've had a fallout for similar reasons. Should I just stick it out and realize that after the wedding we probably won't speak much anymore or continue to make the effort? OR take her out of the wedding in general???
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