Love/hate relationship with friend... should she be a bridesmaid?
I am finishing my last semester of college, and planning my wedding in August at the same time. One of my best friends here at school wants to be a bridesmaid. Our relationship is weird, some days I love her and some days I don't want to be around her. Lately she has been constantly complaining about many things I do, and is not understanding of any of my choices. My fiance doesn't like how she treats me. Then again, she is my closest girl friend at school, and I don't know if I should include her or not. The other problem is, she and my other close college friend are attached at the hip, and I feel if I ask one I have to ask both. My other bridesmaids are my sister (MOH), SIL, and three long time best friends. Its obvious comparing my relationship with them to my relationship with my college friends that they are much closer to me. What should I do?
My other option for my last bridesmaids spot is my cousin. We are really close and have a lot in common, and I would rather have her than my college friend. However, my mom is insisting that if I ask one, I HAVE to ask all four cousins. I am so much closer to the one then to the others, (I even have a slight rivalry with one) but I don't want to hurt feelings. Are cousins all or none? Or should I ask just her?