Just a face palm, rant moment.
I've mentioned in numerous other posts that I have two MOHs; one is very chill, and the other is something of MOH-zilla. She's the one who suggested buying Chinese ripoff dresses in an open conversation with the group before I'd even asked them what they wanted to wear. She's been really fussy about colors, because they're showing up incorrectly on her monitor, and refused to believe that a hot pink (I know, I have the samples) wasn't a true purple, as it looked purple to her and her mother. Doesn't like any of the colors that I've told her are actually purple. Now she wants to "take over" the BM dress decision from me. WTF? I told her that she's welcome to get everyone together and take them shopping at one of two places in Sydney that stock the dresses I've chosen. I've told everyone privately that if there are budget issues, to come to me, so I don't see the problem with giving them a "choose something from this line in this fabric in this length" option. The quality is good, and the dresses are less expensive than things I've been compelled to buy for other weddings with zero options at all.
She got super pissed at a BM for having suggestions about the bachelorette party, although I told her that she and other MOH were by no means bound by these suggestions, it might be more productive to take them on board than outright dismiss them because it's not what she wants to do.
I told her she was welcome to open a FB discussion with the other BMs that didn't include me. She then asked me who they all were, even though there's another FB discussion I started that involves all of them. At least, if she does this, my sister will report back to me about what's going on. She agrees that MOH has been out of line at several points, and told her as much.
Any suggestions on how I can her MOH to chill out a bit? It's driving me a little nuts. Thanks ladies.