My stepmother is 2 years older than I am so we always got along as good friends. She married my dad 11 years ago and recently took him to Mexico where she is from, to visit family. Before they left, she came to me and told me that she would like her wedding gift to us to be our wedding bands, because the gold in Mexico is extremely cheap right now and it's 18 karat. I immediately told her yes and gave her our ring sizes. She told me she was going to keep in touch with me via email so that she could email me photos of what was available and to pick something that we liked.
The short of it is, they are returning from their trip in 3 days, and I haven't heard a word from her regarding the rings for our wedding. I spoke to my dad once about 2 days after they landed but I had to text her cell phone first to see if everything was okay before he ventured to pick up the phone to call me.
Yesterday I emailed her and asked her if perhaps she did in fact email me about the rings and maybe I deleted it in my haste to wipe my inbox of spam. Often when I don't know someone's email address I delete it. She never answered me.
In my honest opinion, I think this is in VERY bad taste. How do you promise someone something and then not only not deliver, but ignore the person and offer up no apology or reason why?! Since she is married to my dad, I am in a horrible situation because I feel like I have nothing to say to either of them right now....how would you guys view this and handle it?