I'm about eight months out from my wedding, but I want to get an early start on table arrangements.
Quick background: about 110 people, split pretty evenly because "his" and "mine", we will be at a sweet heart table, his parents will host their own table, and my parents will each host their own since they're divorced.
Okay so my question is: for the remaining tables of family/friends, do I mix the families (like aunts/uncles from his side sitting with the same from my side), or should I keep tables separated by which "side" they're from? I would like to mix them up because having them separated just seems like I'm drawing these lines between tables. I'm not expecting people to become best friends with someone they don't know, but I'd rather be at a wedding where I'm not seated with the people I see regularly.
I'd like to know what you guys have done before. For family specifically, did you mix the tables or keep "his" and "hers" separate?