Hello all...ok this is my dilemma. Unfortunately like many my fi and I are unable to have a big lavish wedding like many people can, which is fine I wish I could afford a huge wedding, so we have settled for a very small intimate wedding which is a total of 20 which includes us if I'm not mistaken. He keeps saying courthouse but I have never been married and would at least like to do something because I do want a wedding dress. However I am having a really difficult time thinking of how to pull this off. I am so use to seeing big weddings and all the decorations that I can't even imagine what a small wedding would be like. I was thinking of a small beach wedding (St Pete/Clearwater) and then maybe dinner at a nice restaurant of which my fi and I would pay for. has anyone heard of that? I feel with this idea it might look like this odd group of people in wedding attire just came in to eat at a restaurant. I don't have to have all the bells and whistles but at least want it to feel like a wedding. Then I look at doing something like a wedding reception and feel like it's just too much for so little people. I'm confused!!!! Has anyone had or attended such a small wedding? Any ideas?? I would also like to have my nieces and nephew as bridesmaids and groomsmen but it's not a must was just an idea...their ages range from 14 to 3 (total of 6 - 3 boys and 3 girls). I was all gun-ho for a destination wedding but the only true thing holding me back is my mom. She has a fear of flying and even though she would do it for me I would not want to put her in that predicament cause I want her present...especially mentally lol!!