As the title says. I'm very etiquette-oriented, though, and am always happy to offer up advice but don't know how to go about this myself.
This isn't something awful, we're still together but I'm just not the marrying kind. I've planned so many others weddings but I don't know what it is. He feels right but nothing else does. The venue, the dress, whatever. It isn't me and luckily, I've been upfront about that from the day we met so he wasn't blindsided when I opened up and said being engaged was all I needed. I suppose I always knew I never wanted to get married but I knew I always wanted to find someone who wanted to spend forever with me.
Now, I reserve my right to change my mind about this in a few years but as of now, I trust myself, and this isn't what I want. I don't want the spectacle of 350+ people but as a result, I'm in no hurry to just get papers because who cares if we're both committed and don't need the financial benefits of being wed. I just don't want to upset our families.
And there's the problem: our families. Our friends will get it and be supportive so how to tell them is the last thing on my mind. How do we go about informing everyone that we've pulled the plug on everything for now without being off-color or creating soft-spoken drama?