Now that I'm working a lot and can't follow up constantly on wedding-related stuff, I'm realizing how little of it Fi has been doing all along. Oops. That's partly my fault because I've had so much downtime after the bar, it was just easier for me to plan. But now I need Fi to kick his ass in gear and he's not used to helping.
We just addressed our StDs tonight and they will be in tomorrow's mail. Most of them, that is-- Fi still needs to get addresses for most of his friends. I've been asking him to do this for three or four days now. He keeps just saying he'll do it later.
He also needs to make a call about his best man/woman, and get the ball rolling for men's attire. He is close with his sister and only semi-close with his two brothers. He was toying with the idea of having both brothers as best men, but lately he has floated the idea of having his sister as Best Woman. She has actually hinted this to him and I think, frankly, it's the obvious choice. They are very close. Fi seems a little bothered by the traditional gender split in the wedding party, though. I am just worried that if he waits much longer to ask his Best Person, they will feel like an afterthought or B-listed.
How much do I bother him about these things? I'm thinking the Knottie answer is bother him about the addresses, not so much about the Best Person. I'm pretty sure I'm just going to send out the bulk of the StDs (both families and my friends) tomorrow morning and continue reminding him to get them out to his friends ASAP.
"I'm not a rude bitch. I'm ten rude bitches in a large coat."