Once I got engaged I was gung ho about planning. It almost became an obsession for about 3 months. Then I lost all motivation as I realized the wedding we wanted may not be a reality (for instance, I had no idea photographers cost so much, so that it a huge chunk of our already small budget). My wedding is tentatively planned for March 14, 2015, but I'm scared to book things. I fear we will choose the wrong venue (since we have to go with cheaper options with no personal references to help us), or we'll pick a photographer that gives us awful pictures. So, my wedding is 5 months away, and I have nothing done. No venue, no caterer, no photographer, dress, nothing! I'm feeling overwhelmed, yet scared I'm going to choose a bad venue, so I can't commit to anything. Geez, committing to my fiance was easier than this.
Ugh I need a fire lit under me, or March is going to come and go, and there won't be a wedding.