So I've been a wife for a week and a half now, and last night was the first time I really had to step up and support my husband. H was driving home last night, abiding the speed limit, watching the road, when a cat ran out into the road and under his car. He tried to swerve, but he hit it and itdied instantly. H is beside himself. We have a kitty ourselves (though we don't let her outside), and he can't even kill a bug. There was obviously nothing I could say, but I just held him and cried with him. It hurt so much to see him so upset. Just a reminder to hug your furbabies and your SOs.