Seriously, how hard can it be to RSVP? They are addressed and stamped, and even have an email address if getting away from the computer is too much work. With a week to go, and a few unreturned calls later, I guess I should assume they're not coming?
Had a phone meeting with my reception venue at the 10dy mark, and gave them the headcount for those who did RSVP. If they just show up, then we'll throw an extra couple of chairs up for them.
I have enough other stuff going on...can't let a couple of people stress me out. I just needed to vent. Thanks for "listening"!!!