So as our RSVP deadline is upon us my FI and I are now undertaking the most dreaded part of wedding planning... coming up with the seating chart for the reception dinner!
Background info- my parents and grandparents are paying for the wedding, and we're planning on assigning tables but not actual seats, if that makes sense.
So my question is this. How much input do I need to give my FMIL and FFIL on the seating chart? So far me, my FI, and my mom have been working on it, and of course we're trying to make sure everyone is happy and no one feels like they're at the "reject table" or anything. The thing is, I kind of don't want FMIL and FFIL to be super involved in this process because they are just generally difficult people and I think they'll cause us unnecessary headache. My ideal would be we come up with the plan ourselves, run it by them for "approval" but treat it as final unless they see some huge glaring problem... but I don't know if that's not fair of me, and they seem to be expecting to basically be in charge of "their side" of things. So what do you all think I should do? Anyone else been in a similar situation?