I'm sure this has been asked and answered a million times.... but any tips on what to do about a blender that showed up at our wedding without a card? We've asked our ushers if they remember anyone bringing in the large bag, and we've asked our parents if they have any idea, but no one seems to know for sure who brought the mystery gift. We have two prime suspects, but it seems like there is no tactful way to bring it up with them in case neither of them actually brought a gift. I am a thank you card nazi though and I can't handle the thought of someone going through the trouble of getting us this nice blender and hauling it to my wedding and not getting a thank you note. Especially since I noticed that someone purchased it off our registery literally MONTHS ago. So they had this giant box just hanging out in their house for like 12 weeks. They deserve a thank you note!