Hello Everyone,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this post. I really appreciate it!
My fiance and I are set on having a dry wedding. We may offer wine, but that would be it. My fiance is really uncomfortable with having a dance and doesn't want to have one, which I am completely okay with. In all honesty I don't really enjoy the usual drinking and dancing at wedding receptions and wish I could just attend the ceremony without being rude and disrespectful.
However, this will be my wedding so naturally I want to enjoy my own reception. On the other hand, I know other people may be less than keen on the idea of a reception without drinking and dancing. Let's face it at least one of our 90 guests is going to find it strange. I know the day isn't just about my fiance and I, but I'd like to find a solution where almost everyone is happy. (Pleasing everybody is very unlikely to happen).
Right now we are thinking of renting a banquet hall and having a nice lunch and speeches. However, we're worried that because it will be so close to "the norm" the fact that we are not serving alcohol will be more apparent and people will feel like they're missing out. On the other hand, if we do something really different, my very conservative family may feel its even more strange and not what a reception should be. Too much change can bother people. I get that.
So what do we do? Do we make it mostly traditional sans alcohol and dance or do we do something completely different? And if so, what? Please understand that having a dry wedding or dance-less reception is NOT the issue here. My fiance and I are already decided on this point. What we would like opinions on is
how to go about it. Besides that I've already read four different boards on the topic. I would really love to hear your opinions on what we should do though so that we can try our best to make the reception enjoyable for everyone.
Thanks again for reading