So I was on the phone with my FMIL last night. (She is awesome.) And she was stressing me out because she was telling me how uncomfortable she was going to feel because her dress is far more formal than my Mom's. At this point, I really can't do anything to make her feel better.
FMIL has a floorlength chiffon dress (oh, and she's been telling people that the wedding, "isn't that formal"; ummmm, ok? After 5 p.m., full open bar, sit down meal, whatever.). It is going to look beautiful on her, and it makes me sad that she is going to be at all uncomfortable. She was also in a spot where she ordered her dress way ahead of time, because she wanted to get it done so that she could make sure to find something she liked without having to rush.
My Mom, (who gives zero shits about my wedding- Seriously, the only way in which she talks about it is stuff relating to her (or her new BF).. but that's another issue) waited until 2 months before the wedding to even start looking. And everything that she tried on, she bitched about. I finally found a dress that she didn't complain about that hits just below the knee.
They will both look stunning, and IDGAF if they match. Now I'm just stressed out that FMIL feels uncomfortable.
I'm also becoming cranky that me not being a domineering bitch about the whole process means that my wedding isn't fancy.
Ugh, sorry. I'm just really fucking annoyed with people right now.
... and I'm PMSing like it's my job.