Hi everyone!! So my fiance's brother's wife is being awful to me, I just wanted to vent about it!! Ever since we got engaged, she has been making rude comments about me, our relationship, and the wedding itself. For example, we are getting married on May 1st, which is May Day, so we want to do a slightly medieval-ish theme, but nothing too overt. Also, I want to wear a dress with long bell sleeves, and I always have. I know that's not what everyone would want in a wedding dress, but I think it's really beautiful, and it's not like my dress is really over the top or anything. ( this is it, if anyone wants to see..
http://m.ebay.co.uk/itm/221444542876?nav=WATCHING_ACTIVE ) Anyways, future SIL is making it out like we are having a renaissance fair for our wedding, and trying to make it into a joke! She literally told all of FI's family that I was making him wear a codpiece (which... Um, no. But even if we were doing some hard core historical theme like that, it still wouldn't be ok to be so cruel about it!!)
What is really worrying me about it, is that literally the first thing out of her mouth after we got engaged and I told her what month we planned on having the wedding was "Well, just so you know, I will probably be pregnant then, so no one will really be paying attention to you!" I know this is petty and childish, and it seems like she wants to turn things into a competition when there is no reason for them to be, but I am really afraid of her trying to do something nasty on the day of our wedding. If it's not pregnancy, it could be something else, and I literally feel like I'm going to have a panic attack just thinking about it. I know she is a nasty person, and wants to be the center of attention, and usually I just kinda smile and politely ignore her, and try to be the bbigger person, but I really don't want to have to even think about dealing with her on our wedding day. I just want one day where I don't have to worry and feel anxious over what she will do or say. Should I just keep doing what I have been so far, quietly acting ok and hiding my hurt feelings in order to avoid drama?
Anyways, thanks for reading my super-long post, and sorry if it sounded whiny, I just needed to get some of that off my chest..