My wedding is about 6 months away and I feel like I have barely talked to my MOH (also my sister-in-law) about it. Shortly after we got engaged, she announced she was pregnant. Now, I love babies, so I was completely okay with swooning over the idea of a new nephew (and him when he was born). But now he is almost 3 months old and every time I or someone else mentions to my MOH a detail of the wedding, she compares it to hers and shoots down my idea or says how I "should" be doing things as opposed to how I actually want to.
I'm torn. I love her to death but when it comes to things with the wedding the only thing that ever happens from me opening up to her or someone else sharing my ideas (most of the time my mother) is I get upset and frustrated. Do I just leave it alone and grin and bear it or do I say something to her and risk creating a thorn in the relationship?