My wedding date was picked for November 6, 2015 months ago and my cousin just eloped the other day 11-23. I feel like she is being inconsiderate of my wedding date and she still plans on having a big wedding. I've been planning mine since July and she just decides on a whim to get married now. I feel like something has been taken away from me. My plans started first, I picked my date first, so why would she get married so close to my date? Now everyone is going to think of her whim wedding when mine rolls around. I cant say anything because I cant say anything about my feelings without being called inconsiderate or a bitch.... my feelings rarely matter but I feel very slighted.... I hate feeling this way. Am I being petty or are my feelings in the right place?