Okay so I went with the whole "everyone wear whatever they want" shtick. I picked a dark teal color and preferred long, satin dresses but my bridesmaids all wanted to go and try on dresses together. We went to David's Bridal first and they asked me and my sister/MOH (who is a wedding dress consultant) to pick out some dresses we thought would look good on them. I picked different styles, they tried them on, and they ended up picking the ones we thought they would. One of my BMs "Amy" loved her dress so much she didn't want to take it off.
Well recently Amy was talking about how she's in another wedding and that bride wants her to wear a specific 200 dollar dress (the dress for my wedding was 180). She said she's not upset about my dress costing that much at all but that this bride was just having a courthouse wedding and a reception the following week so she's not sure why she even needed bridesmaids or coordinating colors... but she also told me she had to borrow money from her mom to pay for my bridesmaids dress and that she's a little strapped for cash right now.
So now I feel really guilty like I forced them into the dresses when all I wanted was for them to pick them themselves. I'm terrified of being a bridezilla. So do you guys think I'm over thinking it or that I shouldn't have suggested that dress to her?