Hello all! I have a quick question. My fiance and I are trying to keep our wedding as small as possible. 75 is what we wanted. Just close friends and family. Well he has a large immediate family. So 75 came and went. We are at 85. Not too bad but still more than we wanted. Now, where my headache begins. My fiance has a son from a previous relationship, they were never married. We get along great. We have a great friendship and an understanding of each other. But, do I have to invite her to the wedding? My fiance and her are civil but honestly don't even acknowledge the other is in the room. They only speak when they have to. Other wise, her and I take care of it. Would not inviting her hurt our relationship or make it seem like I am being hateful? My fiance doesn't want her there but she is the mother of my stepson. I'm on the fence because I want to respect my fiancees wishes but at the same time, I would rather save face to potentially prevent any drama. What would you do?!?