Hey so I am iffy about what to do . About few weeks ago on November 08th, it was one of my friend's birthday, lets call her Heather. I called and messaged her to see if I could take her out for her birthday that evening. I was going to drive and I was going to take her to her favorite restaurant and bar, so I would pick her up and of course be DD. I did not hear back from her until four days later (even though she was posting on social media during the time). I sent a good morning text and she messaged me soon after. She told me she was out doing stuff with her mom and forgot to message me back that night. I told her I wanted to take her out for her birthday and if she was free tonight, why not go out tonight. She declined the offer, so I asked if she wanted to perhaps do a rain-check for another day and she declined.
When I she stopped by my parents on Thanksgiving, my parents gave her a happy belated birthday bottle of wine and I gave her a few charms for her Pandora Bracelet. She mentioned something to my mom about what she did with her own mother and my mom asked me if I did anything with her. I told her I offered to take her out and she declined and Heather said she was fine. I threw it out on the table again and she says "nah I'm good, thanks for the offer though!."
Weeks passed by and now she tags me and a few others on her facebook discussing some partying and then mentions "AlexisA1 you still owe me that birthday night out at XYZ. Naturally, I am somewhat livid. I did not comment on her post and removed it from my timeline review. A few hours later I get a text message from Heather today asking if I still wanted to take her out for her birthday. I haven't replied yet. What would you do? My FH thinks I gave her too many offers and since she declined I should not do anything. My own mom said that Heather can't decline something numorous times then think the invitation is still open.
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