My husband hates social events, hates meeting new people, hates small talk. (I'm the opposite!) The last wedding we went to he bitched and moaned asking if we could leave, so we left after dinner. I was disappointed because I had been looking forward to it for months.
I was just asked to be a maid of honor. All I can think of is how much he hates being at events even with me by his side, I can't imagine him sitting there alone for the ceremony and cocktail hour. If it was my best friend that he knows well, sure it might be different. But he has never met the bride & groom, let alone any of their guests. Do you think the bride or other people would find it strange if my husband doesn't go? Would it be better to make him go, or maybe make up an excuse like work, or just be honest about it? I don't want to hurt her feelings but I don't want him to be miserable either.