I just need to seriously vent this out.
We're not getting married until April of 2016.
We got engaged in October.
I immediately started looking at a bunch of venues online and making appointments to see about 5 or 6 places after narrowing it down. This one venue really stood out and I had a little trouble getting in touch with the people but I really wanted to see it. I finally found a phone number for the actual person in charge and got an appointment. It was perfect. The right price, had a good indoor option for inclement weather, good space, and was gorgeous. Not wanting to jump on the very first thing, we looked a couple more places in our budget before deciding that was the one.
Just before the Christmas holidays, I emailed the woman in charge, asking to make an appointment to go over a contract and put down a deposit. No reply. I figured it was close to the holidays and everyone had a lot on their plates, so after the new year, I called. Scheduled an appointment to meet last Friday at noon. I figured I would just take a few extra minutes at lunch to go over there since I get an hour and it's about 25 minutes from my work. No problem.
I get there at noon. Doors are locked and no one answering. Call the woman on the phone number that she had told me to call if I had any problems. No answer. Wait about 10 minutes and try to call again. No answer. Call FI who wasn't too far away and he comes over while I call again. Left a voicemail.
Now it's getting to be about 12:30. We see someone exit the building (there are offices on the second floor of the building, but the woman that handles the rental of it for weddings and events does not actually work in this building). FI stops her and asks her if she's seen this woman. She hasn't but she takes down our name and number and says she'll email her when she gets back and let her know we were waiting for her.
FI tries the front door again. It's still locked but a maintenance person lets us in when he hears us trying the door. Maintenance person tells us "Good luck with that" when we tell him who we are supposed to be meeting. Finally, another woman shows up and tells us that she "forgot the wedding coordinator told her that she was busy and would need her to meet with us".
Okay, fine, not the wedding coordinator's fault. Except that apparently this woman did not know that we were supposed to be going over a contract and putting down a deposit and did not have the means or the authority to do this and kept insisting on "showing us around" even though we'd already seen the place and been over it all already.