Me and my husband have been married for going on 8 years. We have never had a wedding, Just or civil marriage where some close friends were as witnesses. We are planning to renew our vows except we actually want the whole big event. everyone thats coming knows we are married but they say I can do whatever I want. I want advice, Id like to have our kids in the "wedding party" my girls want it like they saw at a wedding we went to. Whats your advice? I really dont care what people say cuz at the end of the day they will criticize no matter what.