I'm not sure how to word my invitations. My father and my fiancé's mother both passed away recently. His father is helping pay for the rehearsal but not the wedding. My mom is contributing nothing. We are paying for the wedding with part of the life insurance policy my dad left for me.
I know you usually put whoever is paying for the wedding, which is technically my dad. Obviously that would be a bit weird since he's not alive. But I don't feel right wording it like we are the ones paying for it, because honestly that money has just sat in an account for a year because I do not feel like it is mine and I've been unable to bring myself to use it for anything. I know my dad would have paid for my wedding and would have wanted me to have one and would have enjoyed every minute, and that's the only way I've been able to bring myself to use it for this.
He is the one paying for it, and I want people to know that, but I know I can't put it on the invitation. So two questions I guess:
1) How do I word the invitations?
2) How do I honor my dad and his contribution to the wedding? We aren't doing a program or anything. I'm walking down the aisle to his favorite song but only those close to him will know that...