my mother passed 11 years ago. my father is unreliable. i've been with my aunt and uncle for the last 9 years, and my uncle's (by marriage) family is about all i have. my sisters can't be bothered with me, because i don't feed into their drama. i just recently ended a toxic friendship which left me with one girl who is just about as toxic, a man of honor (my only truly healthy, trustworthy friend) who lives 2 hours away and possibly another bridesman, who at this point i'm not even sure if he is coming and my future sister in law, who is 3 hours away at school, and because she's been there since we started dating, we aren't super close dispite the fact that i adore her. my future in laws are just absolutely amazing. my fiance's friends are wonderful, and i enjoy the company of their girlfriends, but we're not close, they're relatively new relationships. i can't bring myself to solicit advice or help from them. but the main thing i can't bring myself to get over is they just aren't MY friends and family. but they're all i have. i come from a long line of losers, and recently i've gotten rid of the yucks in my life. i am so blessed to be joining such a wonderful, positive family and being accepted by his friends. they're the kind of friends everyone deserves. the best kind. but i'm not bringing much to the table here. i have so little people in my life, i don't even want to do a stupid wedding, but my fiance has so many people he wants to share this with, and they're great people to have on such a day. so i agreed to for him, and them. my fiance's best friend and best man is planning a little trip for his bachelor party. he's going out with the guys to figure out what to wear. he has atleast 3 more guys than i do bridesmaids/men. i pretty much told people what colors to wear as they're not close, around, too busy. no one has even brought up a bachelorette party for me. i'm so happy he's getting to experience all the fun things that come with weddings. i'm just really sad that not only am i doing a wedding i don't want to do, but i don't have friends to help me pick a dress, or to plan something fun. i sound so selfish, and i am. i'm just so bummed how this is all playing out. i'm the bride. not that i'm a big deal kind of girl, but it just seems like for once, maybe i could have a team to lift me up on the first day of the rest of my life. i'm going into it alone, but thank god i'll be coming out of it as part of a team.