Help with bridesmaid jewelry!

kriskline10

Hey! So, I'm having my girls wear mint green dresses with nude shoes. I'm having a hard time deciding what color jewelry they should wear?

So, what do you think - gold or silver? 

manateehugger

kriskline10 said:

Hey! So, I'm having my girls wear mint green dresses with nude shoes. I'm having a hard time deciding what color jewelry they should wear?

So, what do you think - gold or silver? 

I'm going to vote that you remove this from your list of concerns because no one will notice or remotely care. Please don't dictate jewelry; I'm sure your bridesmaids are lovely women capable of making their own jewelry choices.

If one asks, just say, "wear what you want!"

Viczaesar

kriskline10 said:

Hey! So, I'm having my girls wear mint green dresses with nude shoes. I'm having a hard time deciding what color jewelry they should wear?

So, what do you think - gold or silver? 

Option 3 - let them wear whatever jewelry they want in whatever color they want.  Dictating jewelry is micromanaging.

AddieCake

Let them wear whatever they want. I have no idea what jewelry my bridesmaids wore. Nobody will pay any attention to their jewelry.

southernbelle0915

Let them surprise you. Can you name exactly what jewelry the BMs wore in the last wedding you went to? Probably not. Because it doesn't matter.

novella1186

manateehugger said:

kriskline10 said:

Hey! So, I'm having my girls wear mint green dresses with nude shoes. I'm having a hard time deciding what color jewelry they should wear?

So, what do you think - gold or silver? 

I'm going to vote that you remove this from your list of concerns because no one will notice or remotely care. Please don't dictate jewelry; I'm sure your bridesmaids are lovely women capable of making their own jewelry choices.

If one asks, just say, "wear what you want!"

This. 100% 

Maggie0829

Let them wear whatever they want.

mikenberger

Damn this is a happy place today. We're all in agreement. 

Skip the matching jewelry. 

climbingsingle

Another vote for letting them wear whatever they want. No one will even notice their jewerly. 

flantastic

My sister wore a gold statement necklace. I remember it because it was a statement and she looked great. I really doubt anyone else remembers it. I have no idea jewelry what my other BMs wore.

No one will notice and they definitely won't care, so just let your BMs wear whatever.

Cookie Pusher

I don't even know if my BMs wore jewelry...

[Deleted User]

Let them wear whatever they want.

If you tell me that I HAVE to wear gold jewelry, I will laugh at you.  I don't own a stitch of gold.  Not a stud earring.

vmj23

Another vote for let them wear whatever they want!

kriskline10

Ok thanks.. I'm not strict on jewelry I was just planning on buying them bracelets as gifts. They don't have to wear them for the wedding... was just trying to get a feel on color. 

manateehugger

kriskline10 said:

Ok thanks.. I'm not strict on jewelry I was just planning on buying them bracelets as gifts. They don't have to wear them for the wedding... was just trying to get a feel on color. 

In that case, just buy each individual lady a bracelet you think she'd like.

If they aren't going to be worn at the wedding, the color doesn't matter beyond personal preference of the bridesmaid.